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It is good that you want to maintain a degree of independence but at the same time he obviously wants to see you in order to offer to pay for the tickets and as such it could be viewed that it is beneficial to him as much as to you. Don't let pride get in the way if that is the only reason.

Absolutly. I moved away from my hometown of Winnipeg Manitoba.. (Canada) to Florida.. so its a huge move. I've been with my byofriend for 4 years, and i'm finishing school out here because my parnets live here so its easier and will cost less for me. My boyfriend had plans to come to Florida for christmas and he couldn't make it, he offerd to fly me home. I was to proud to accept but he talked me into it. I love the guy and i plan on marrying him. If you have future plans with him you have to accept it becuase if you dont, time will takes its toll, and its so so hard. So accept it, and remember that throughout the years you'll pay him back, maybe not in cash but somehow:) he'll just be happy to see ya

What's the big deal?? Is not like this guy is a stranger you met on-line or someone who you recently met!.. This is your boyfriend who wants to see you and like he said, paying your way there will be the same as if he was paying to come see you. Dont worry about it, next time make sure the tickets are on you!... Plus if he's buying them on sale then he's saving some $$$... Go ahead and enjoy!!!

You love him and he obviously loves you to make the offer instead of having the plans completely fall apart. If you have the time, then there is no harm taking him up on the plan. You will have time in the future to make a gesture like that - I'm sure - so accept and then make a "plan" to invite him to your place when your finances are better.

If u really want to see him and he's fine paying the fare then ya go ahead. As far as ur pride is concerned u can sponsor him the next time u save some.

If a girl lets a guy pay for anything the guy will expect something back from you if you know what I mean so if your willing to give him what he wants from you then let him pay for your ticket. If you don't want to make him happy don't accept the ticket.

It all depends on if you are old enough to go on your own, if you are a teenager, I say no, if you are an adult, I don't see any harm in letting him buy you a ticket to go see him, there is no pride to it, he is your boyfriend, and he wants to be with you, so go, have fun, and stay safe. Good Luck and God Bless!!

if you want to see him and cant then this seems like a good solution. pride is great but dont let it make you miss your chance to get what you want. if the money thing is that much of a big deal to you then offer to pay for his next trip to see you, then you'll be even.

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my man lives far too, if he offered to pay... I'd go! In a heartbeat! If you love someone, there is no such thing as proud when it comes to seeing them. If you really missed him, you wouldn't have had to ask us if you should go, there would have been no question.