People, I have a very good friend in USA, he stops to write to me and don´t answer my email anymore.?
I used to work in the same company as him, and I am not in the company anymore, so I belive that a girl told him a lie about me on pourpose, she didn´t like to see me and him together because he is a director, she is manager and I am salesprofessional.
what do you think about it?
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Looks like to me that someone is protetcing their Job. This is very common. When people feel that something is going to threaten them, they usually make sure to get that threat taken out of the way. Some people usually tell the Boss a lie, for example "This girl is just trying to get into your pants." or "She has secondary motives." ect. Whatever it takes to win. I could be wrong but this is what it sounds like. Maybe she black mailed him? "If you do not break it off with this girl, I will tell your boss that you are dating someone from the company." Even if this may not be true, it will make the manager scared that he will lose his Job. Mean world out there. Dog eat Dog. However, what goes around comes around. That seems to hold true.
I think he is no longer very good. For whatever reason he is mediocre at best.
Next time you send him an email check the option that says "get a return receipt when this message is read." That will show you whether he is reading your message and not bothering to respond or whether you are writing on an email address that he doesn't check anymore.
He's got the issue, not you. If he's gonna believe someone else other than what his gut tells him about your friendship, then you don't need people like that in your life. Get over him honey, he's not worth your concern, you need friends that will buid you up and appreciate you, not believe little lies.
I think next time you ask your question, it should read:''People, I HAD a very good friend in USA, he stops to write to me and don´t answer my email anymore.?''
It's very sad but if he is not reading or responding to your E -mails than I would suggest you just go on with your life. It's sad but some people just don't say goodbye before they cut you off. It's happened to me too. Just go on with your life. Bye.
Did you do anything wrong or make him mad that you know of. Maybe he had to stop talking to you to keep his job.I also think you should try a different approach he might answer you .
Not worth the effort
maybe he got hit by a bus or car, so that's why he can't write, because he broke his arms and hands and fingers, but he wants to, but he's in the hospital, in the ICU. :(
If he believes lies about you, then he wasn't really a good friend, was he?
It's bad but, you need to move on