I might be a bit crazy, or I may be right? My girlfriend used to live with her ex husbands family for a few months. There, she developed a good relationship with her brother in laws wife and their teenage son. She eventually moved out and then eventually separated. Fast forward to present. She told me about her staying at their place. How she didn’t want to be there long, etc and how she got close to the wife. I didn’t notice she talked to her much though. Like on the phone or any social media. Though I did notice she would constantly check up on the son. Always looking at his social media. Telling him weird border line things that could easily be mistaken. Once, she told him she wishes she was over there cause she misses his face. Nothing wrong with that but when she uses that phrase she uses it towards people she likes. I could be wrong maybe a bit crazy but I just find it odd that she’s closer to that boy than the parents. I’m going crazy here. Maybe I’m misunderstanding?
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Since this is a significant concern, you have an obligation to be honest with her and explain why this bothers you and how you see it affecting your relationship. To do any less will be to let it fester and, if you do that, things will only get worse.
If she’s a white woman then she is most likely fondling with that boy
Don’t trust, look to me complicated !
You haven't mentioned the boys age. Has it occurred that she longs to be a mother herself? Besides liking someone and letting them know that you do is not necessarily a bad thing. But I do agree that it could be taken in the wrong way by the son. Personally, I think you should leave this one alone until you know for a fact that there is a problem otherwise you are going to become the problem.