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Um. He's going to tip. And get lap dances. You should set boundaries along the lines of - no blow jobs and no sex.

I live in Thailand and I will tell it to you straight. Sorry, but this is going to hurt...

If he ends up just tipping a girl or having a lap dance, you should jump up and down with joy! But, firstly: you won't know, and secondly: it won't happen.

So let's get real:

Chances are he'll sleep with a Thai girl on the first night from the first bar he goes to. Thai girls are the most gorgeous, sensual, sweet, captivating, stunning, amazing girls in the world. They will eat him alive and have him salivating within minutes. He wll be too caught up in a trance to even think about you, until the next day when he will feel incredibly guilty and she is standing over him with her arm outstretched and demanding that he pay her for her services. Thai girls are also the most deceptive, crafty, manipulating, deceitful girls in the world too, but he won't realise this until he has thrown the best girl in his life away (you), and spend the next year sending money to her every month only to find out she has ten boyfriends all around the world and isn't staying with her family out in the sticks with his baby, but instead is living in Pattaya, Phuket or Koh Samui sleeping with customers every night and making more money that him.

Sorry to bring you the bad news.

You need to worry about more than boundaries if he's going to Thailand. Don't bite your tongue - use it - carefully but in as much detail as possible. Do some research on what he will encounter in Thailand. Do you really want to marry a man who would do this as a bachelor party?

i'm sorry you're so bothered via this. I honestly see the place you're coming from, as i'd experience slightly uneasy approximately my own boyfriend vacationing to a distinctive united states for a bachelor occasion. You certainly do not want something to ensue that would desire to probably smash your relationship with him. You 2 are engaged for a reason. not that which potential something for the time of on the present time in age, so which you are the only individual who can answer this question: To be thoroughly in love with somebody and want to proportion your finished existence with them potential you have faith them with all of you. He has your heart, so which you have faith in him to not smash it. it particularly is confusing to draw close, yet you may desire to truly think of approximately that. Do you have faith your fiance? you comprehend the kind of individual he's. you may not have faith the common public of the folk on Yahoo solutions (no offense). I in no way positioned up questions approximately right here (particularly relationship ones), by way of fact the advice given is many times packed with crap. they don't comprehend you, and that they actually do not comprehend your fiance or what makes your relationship artwork, and why it works that way. do not enable those human beings positioned unfavourable ideas on your head. while you're heavily feeling uneasy approximately this holiday... (not after human beings on right here swayed you), then that's a distinctive tale. So... are you? I actually have a feeling which you have faith him. it particularly is usual to rigidity. have faith me! i'm sorry if this did not assist you to, yet i wish it did, a minimum of extremely. be satisfied to digital mail me! better of success. i comprehend you would be ok.

You should have enough trust in your bf to do the right thing. Trust is the corner stone of any relationship, and if you are going to marry the guy, you should already be trusting him; and if you question his behavior, maybe you already see a problem with the relationship.

You will just have to trust him and hope it doesn't turn into "The hangover 2"

they going all the way there for the crazy unGodly sex, there is no way he won't have sex. there are prostitutes and bar whores everywhere, as in any asian country.

they have no morals

nothing wrong with a little fun as long as it don't get out of hand