I'm so sick of waiting to marry my fiancé?
We have been together for five and a half years and he now wants to post pone our wedding that was planned for April, by another 18 months due to money.
I'm so sick of waiting because I've already been with him for 5.5 years, I just want to be married, I don't even care about the actual wedding itself.
What should I do? Give up and move on or realise there's no rush seeming we're going to be together forever anyway? I'm just tired of this wedding and marriage being a fantasy. we have already been engaged for a year.
Update:We are in our mid twenties by the way if that's of any importance
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Any engagement that lasts longer than a realistic 3 to 4 years becomes a joke relationship, you have to decide whether you are prepared to wait or even waste any more time with this guy.
Just get eloped and then in like 18 months you can have like a wedding with family and friends. If he doesn't want to elope then chances are he doesn't really want to get married and he's making excuses to hold off the wedding.
Trip to vegas! Kidding, go to justice of the peace and then maybe have a party reception for ur friends. Assuming money is the real issue, tell him if he likes it then he has to do more than put a ring on it.
Leave him,what is the guarantee after 18 mths he will marry to u,enough is enough,
tell him to h*ll with planning a wedding, let's just elope to vegas - if that doesn't work tell him you just want to be married, no more games, no more delays
Maybe you can elope? It makes the ceremony more personal between you two.