So I watched a video on Facebook, it was a video of a gay couple doing sit-ups together and whenever the one guy would come up the other guy would kiss him. You know like a couple goals type video. So my fiancé found out that I watched this video and freaked out acted like I cheated on him like it was the worst thing I could have ever done. Since then he s been saying he can do whatever he wants. He forced me to give him all of my social media passwords signs into my accounts and stalks me. If I don t do exactly what he says when he says it he threatens to break up with me. He said I m not allowed to watch movies even if they re pg without his permission. He s always yelling at me. Tells me I m not allowed to ever call him. And recently he added my sister on Facebook snapchat and Instagram, who kept badmouthing me to him, who I asked him not to talk to. And I m just like why did you do that she keeps saying bad things about me to you that aren t even true and he s like "so what I can do whatever I want". There s some other stuff too but really he just doesn t care about my feelings anymore and I don t know what to do.
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All the while you allow yourself to be treated like crap, you will be. Break up with this controlling arsewipe and you will be on the road to feeling much better about yourself. He treats you like this because he can and I'll bet my firstborn that he's also telling you that you are lucky to have him and no one else will want you? THIS IS BULLSHIT. He's the one that will end up alone and miserable while you will dump this manipulative loser and realise that you are worth so much more than he can give you. This p.o.s is no where near ready for an adult relationship, let alone engagement or marriage.
I do not tell him he can't watch pg13 movies. I've never told him that. I never told him he couldn't watch spongebob. When he's saying I lied about guys he's talking about over a year ago when I asked him if I could add some guy I knew on Facebook and he said yes. But he kept asking where I knew him from and I said from high school even though I met him at the hospital when I was there (I told him this because I knew he would yell at me about making friends in the hospital because he had done so before). However I know I shouldn't have lied. Also he's saying I talked to some guy but this guy was a 15/16 year old kid who was a friend of my whole family's for years who he had a huge problem with me talking to for no reason and whenever him and his family came over he would force me to stay in my room (this incident was also from over a year ago) and finally the one time I broke up with him was because he treated me like sh*t and had nothing to do with talking to guys.
Dump this controlling moron. Do it now.
next month he is going to keep you in chains in the basement. runaway fast
Break up with him. He has no right to control you or your life. You will find someone better