I deeply care for my boyfriend and I know he’s passionate about me but he seemed withdrawn.He’s a great person so sweet & fun to be around but in the bedroom he’s quiet and likes ONLY to cuddle up to me - seeming really shy. I have no problem cherishing the pleasures of cuddling. Outside the bedroom everything was fine, in fact wonderful, but inside, he wasn’t telling me something. My frustration grew so I finally asked him seriously, if he was gay or a transvestite.
But instead he confessed that sometimes he likes to be treated like a kid, with rules and discipline similar to that in which a child receives. Such as, corner time, spankings, etc, which was embarrassing for him to tell me but asked that I participate, i.e. be the ‘mommy. He felt horrible when I hesitated and offered to call off our whole relationship because he thinks I can do better. I have been completely blindsided by this whole thing and I’m worried about the relationship and strain. Please give any help you can!
Update:I have tried not to made a big deal out of it but feel this will pull us apart! I’ve done reading online about fetishes but it didn’t help with what I wanted to know. I’m worried about real life experiences and dealing with the strains it puts on relationships, and how the balancing works? I would love to hear from someone who has delt with this before.
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tell him how u feel and..make him feel comfortable and that everything will be alright..express your love
Yikes! Boyfriend needs some serious help. He likes to have a dominate figure in a relationship and that's not good! He will be a spineless wimp mommas boy his whole life. You're dating a three year old so take him home and put him back in his crib.
Do some research on the web about Adult Babies/Diaper Lovers. It sounds like he's into that. Read up on it, and see if being a mommy appeals to you. If it does, then you two have a new game to play together. If it doesn't, then you might want to consider breaking up.... because I doubt that he'd want to give up this "interest" of his.
This is a little unusual, but not unheard of. If you love him, try it out, you might like it. I usually go out with girls who like to be dominated in bed, so I cant really comment on why he feels this way. I say go for it, have some fun.
If you want to stay with him then do it, Spank his bad lil butt, but if you think its sick and freaky move on life is too short
see it as a sexuel foreplay ...or a game....and enjoy it...
ok maybe its not the best idea but at least it will keep both of you happy.
Comon think about it, why should ur relationship be like this, ur his girfriend not his mother! And he should Learn to live like a man!
no you won't lose him