So my fiancé and I have to live in his dads and sisters house until he finishes nursing school. (About 1 year to wait, we have been here 3). Anyway, it is complete hell. And how can I servive it, first of all the house is trashed, newspaper and clothes everywhere, my fiancé autistic brother going to the bathroom in the ground. (And it not being cleaned up). That is just one part. His lazy father not getting a job, so no electricity in the house. His sister causing LOTS of drama that affects our relationship. I can't even cook myself something if my fiancé is not in the house because of the horrible looks I get from them when I touch their food. (They get a food card but my fiancé gets an amount of it, so in all rights it's ours too). My fiancé has to get $10 from them everyday but this means we have to sneak and eat our own food. So we are basically allowed only 1 meal a day. How am I going to get through this, I am losing it. We can't move out until after my fiancé graduates nursing school, which he is almost done (1 year). Need advice to get through this
Update:His dad has no car eaither. Notice I love this guy to death, and I will stick by his side, and he knows how wrong it is, he is against them. But we can't do anything without an income.
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Woah! I feel bad for you. Idk just be strong and maybe get a job or something to get you out of that house? Gosh if that was me I'd say eff that I'm movin to my mom lol that's crazy. I'm not judge but having to live with someone who is autistic is hard. I work in a hospital I now what you mean. But maybe if you get a job you can probable get a an apartment for like 400$ a month from where you live better than staying with in laws. That's my advice because if I was in your situation I would do that get a job from anywhere an suck it up even if it comes to fast food who care doesn't hurt to give it a go. Good luck
You decided to move in and you can decide to move out. Your fiance can take out a loan, join the service or you can get a job yourself to support the two of you. You have been there for 3 years , probably paying no rent and sponging off them. You want better living conditions , go find them