Keeping in touch with friends…?
With some of my friends it seems like I’m the only one who’s trying to keep in touch. I’m the one who always calls; I’m the one who organizes the meetings. It makes me wonder if I’m the only one who cares about our relationships. And they are capable of initiating stuff and keeping in touch, they do it with their other friends, but not with me.
What am I supposed to do about it?
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This has happened with me too. I know its difficult to accept that they arent keeping well in touch with you. They dont think its their responsibility to keep in touch with you. They consider other things more important than you. Even you need to move on. When they realise your importance they will come back. Try not to think much about them. Engage yourself with some activities. There are much more important things in life than them
I kept in touch with all of my high school friends after school was over, but it turns out that half of them were not my real friends to begin with, so I only keep in touch with about 4 of them now.
I have a friend that is just like u. Bcos u contact them they don't feel the need to contact u. They do reply u rite? In fact, it's a good thing that u organize stuff coz if ur friends do so they might not be as good as u. I'm sure they know it. Just get this of ur back.
No, your not the only one that cares. Your just the friend that makjes the most effort. Tell them how you feel and that you dont feel they care as much as you do. Talking it out can actually really help. If they still dont care or they dont listen to you, find new, better friends that will.
Good luck.
-Cece
Don't talk to them for a long time,
and if you don't hear from them you can tell they don't care.
um maybe they just come to look at you as a leader who orginized and keeps everything together
well, friends are always friends. in friendship you don't think of who is maintaining it, don't think of this. just remember they will be there just when you need them.
bye.
talk to them they should have good reasoning
stop calling them.