and it honestly is the only thing this entire time that has caused me to feel a huge sense of relief. Relief that I can finally get over him, that there are no future chances of us getting back together, that I can finally bury this heartbreak. In 2015 I found out my fiancé was sleeping with his ex who was only 20, I was 22 and he was 28. I broke up with him. He married her a few months later. I could not get over this. I just found out tonight that they had a baby. Me being 24, I don't want kids any time soon, and I'm so glad that's not me right now. I also don't date men who have children, so any future hope that we could ever be together has made those longing pains null and void. Maybe I can finally move on. I know this is probably the opposite reaction most women have, but I can honestly say that this has sealed the deal on my healing process. Before I kept thinking "If he decides to come back to me, I can deal with him having been married before." but not having a kid with her, no, that I won't tolerate. I don't even feel jealous right now. I feel liberated. I would like to hear from other women, or anyone, who has experienced this before? Any comments are appreciated.