It's now 2013 and he is still not officially divorced since march 2012 when he supposedly said he filed and its driving me crazy as his fiance?

He had the nerve to propose to me while he was still legally married. He married her so she could get papers as a favor to a friend for money. Of course he never got all the money he was supposed to get only a portion of it. This is fact because no one in his immediate family knows her and plus he lives with me. I am getting tired of waiting, it's supposed to be uncontested and we live in NYC. I'm getting older and would like to have a baby and he has no idea when this will be final. I saw the papers filed for march . here we are 10 months later What should I do at this point I'm fed up

He lives with me and I found out there is a website to check statues of a divorce and his index number didn't even pop up

Now it is official he never filed and I wasted my time. I fell deeply for this man. We were planning our wedding.

I had no idea he was legally married so I was misled I found the divorce papers that he had filed around the time he proposed

what should I do? I dont want to leave him but what if he never does it? Why do I deserve to wait around and let him continue to lie about it when he know how much this is important to me?