Hi so I currently live in Pennsylvania. My friend callie just recently got a girlfriend and I’m really happy for her, but she dropped her entire life for this girl. She moved to New Jersey and is kind of far about 3 hours maybe with traffic 4. Again I’m very happy for her but she is such a brat. She expects me to drop everything in my life to come visit her. My finances haven’t been the best. Also her girlfriend instilled in her brain that true friends will always visit you even when your poor. So her girlfriend doesn’t like me bc I haven’t put in my finances yet to go and visit. But she made it clear to me that she will not even meet half way or even come to Pennsylvania. So I feel guilt tripped and manipulated every single time then she came to Pennsylvania only 10 min from my place sends me a Snapchat and expects me not to get upset over it I think she’s immature and petty. So am I in the wrong or is callie? I just can’t take one sides people anymore. Meeting halfway would be best but she won’t even budge to do that! She said she doesn’t want to drive but yet was in my area and didn’t even tell me but sends me snapchats so I could feel some type of way