I’m a female bisexual teenager and I’ve got a crush on my friend, who is a lesbian. (I’ll call her Dana.) I’ve known her for almost a year; we weren’t very close when school ended but we began chatting over Facebook and lately we’ve had some really deep conversations and have gotten together a few times. Even after talking for hours at a time, she is consistently disappointed when I finally leave Facebook to go to bed. In our conversations there’s always lots of innuendo (I guess that’s just the type of people we are), a lot of smiley faces and kisses (:*), and recently we began exchanging hearts (<3), and SHE was the first one to use the heart icon. (The other day I asked her if she uses those icons when chatting with her other friends, and she said no.) She responds positively to any romantic/sexual comments I make:

Me - I really wish I had someone to snuggle with.

Her – Me too, sometimes this bed feels so empty.

Me – I could fix that. ;)

Her – I’d like that. ;)

The last time Dana and I were together, we were watching a movie and got into a tickle fight that ended with my hand in her hand, and we stayed like that for a full thirty seconds before we withdrew our hands. Later when we went for a walk, she made a joke about the two of us ‘eloping’.

But here’s the thing…the other day, I mentioned to her that I like someone. (I haven’t explicitly told Dana how I feel about her.) She didn’t ask who, she just messaged me, ‘Tell them not to hurt you, or I’ll beat the **** out of them,’ and didn’t seem jealous at all.

And one more thing…this might sound a bit confusing.

We were chatting again the other day and she told me that her cousin Morgan (who I have met) kept asking Dana if she was at my house. Then Dana messaged me, ‘She knows…RUN!’ I assumed that Dana was joking that Morgan supposedly knows about us, even though we aren’t officially together. But this is assuming that Dana likes me, and knows that I like her, and that she was willing to acknowledge it. I asked Dana later what she meant by ‘She knows,’ but all she said was that she ‘likes to say random things a lot.’

So what do you people think? Is there a chance that Dana likes me?

Well, yes, I know that with all the flirting, there is definately a 'chance' that she may like me back...but what I more want to know is, would you do this to someone if you had no interest in them?