I’m starving but I can’t say anything .. what do I do ?
I come to my girlfriends parents house every weekend.. but I also end up starving every time I’m here. I can’t just go up to there refrigerator and open it. I feel like I get judge every time I walk into their kitchen even just to get water. The first day I can to their house the let me know exactly how they felt about people going into their refrigerator. They tell me I am family and stuff but I don’t really feel like it’s absolutely that deep .. just things people say.. very shallow. So tonight I go hungry
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My god why is no one saying the freaking OBVIOUS.... talk to your GIRLFRIEND about the situation. She has rights over the fridge and feeding you more than the parents do in this situation. Seriously. Why are you not talking to HER about it?
LOL..they may SAY they like you but either that is a total lie, or they really do not want you there every weekend. Get a clue. When people invite someone to their home, they feed them..you apparently are not invited and will not be fed. This is exactly how parents get rid of the boyfriend they don't want their daughter to date. You are just not getting the message..
Yessir you gotcha self a regular Maggie's Farm there. You are a guest and that is uncomfortable. You are also their potential victim . Moving in with her & her family is no free lunch, baby. And pretty soon they're gonna kick you out altogether.
If you want to save the day for yourself, think of something you can do for the family, maybe something none of them likes to do. Do several things. Be a cornucopia of good to them. Otherwise, as it is you aren't looking good, just THERE! Ugh. There's his face hanging out again looking for food. Or maybe you could pass out from hunger in your labors and become adored like Tiny Tim? They are her parents so you have to accept who they are.
Bring your own snacks and water
either eat before you go over there, ask your friend to go get you something or bring your own food or go out and get something and bring it back.
I would put a bunch of snacks in your bad for the weekend, this way you can just in the room without feeling judged
Next time, bring some food with you.
Do they not make meals? Do they make meals but not include you? Do you decline to join them for meals?
Go get some fast food and come back.
Wow, you poor helpless boy. Ask them to drive you to 7 11 to buy some food. If you don't have money, ask to borrow some until you get home. Tell them you're a starving teenage boy.
Bring goodies.