I work with this guy. He’s married. Pretty chill dude, the type of person you want to have around. It started with simple hugs, then hugs started changing to closer hugs.. he would caress my back and his cheek touching mine. I felt like there was more. So days went by then weeks and now months. He gets me nervous and I can’t even look at his eyes. He knows it and tells me you always get nervous and you giggle. I don’t think you will get over that. He plays with my head. I know it’s not me making **** up. Every time we speak he stares at my lips like stop!! So now I ignore him and he ignores me too. We work together so anything related to work we should speak about it, but he decides not to acknowledge me when I’m the one in charge of the front end. Like seriously wtf is going on because it’s driving me insane. I miss him a lot and to tell you the truth I would forget he’s married. But like I said I ignore him now because I just can’t deal with this
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Just **** the guy
He's married. That is off limits. Respect yourself AND his wife more than that.
Sounds like he's into you but afraid to cheat on his wife.
Friends with benefits.
This is why dating and flirting at work should have a government health warning, lol. Joking apart, you guys haven't even officially dated yet he's gotten you steaming below the waistline that's literally begging to be harvest should he dare to put it out there. Wake up and smell the coffee, are you listening to yourself? The fact the very idea has even entered your mind is not only ludicrous but could possibly the biggest mistake you've made in your very young life. The scenario you've engaged in with this loser is all about the powers of persuasion, the breaking of a persons spirit, the end game! A trip down the rabbit hole in of Alice In Wonderland would be a welcoming that your tired soul needs to put you back on track as opposed to what you're thinking of possibly doing. There's a fine line between love and hate, just as there's a fine line between being a carefree young girl/woman or the other woman for the rest of your natural life. The other woman usually feels that she never had a choice based on her pursuer being relentless in his pursuit of her knowing no bounds. The playout of your own personal scenario is old skool and so out dated that I'm surprized that you even fell for it let alone not even assigned or tagged him as a sexual harasser in the workplace. This is where your choice is the most important, so, listen up?
Then you are doing the right thing. It's a world of pain messing with married men and in the majority of cases it will end up being your pain. You have the hots for him is what's going on, and he's been encouraging that. He's not free to be with you without disrupting his whole life for what'll probably turn out to be no better than the situation he's bored with now. Keep on ignoring him, unless you love excitement that quickly turns to disillusion and pain.
He shouldn't be "available" like that, and you are too naïve to his intentions to understand. Get some distance.
I will never understand why women give married guys the time of day and attention... no decency
if he's married forget it .. but if you find out he's divorced yank him into the broom closet and rock his world ..