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Well let's see what we have so far.Waaaay back in the 1970's when I was in school a fella could give his best gal one of his rings or buy a fidelity ring for her perty little hand.Another way to let that Philly know she was special was to let her wear his Varsity Jacket the day of the game,or wear an article clothing everyone knew was his.

Now for the dudes that were secure with themselves he would wear on a non game day with steady frequency an item she made for him in Home-Ec class.

But to answer the question as directly as it was asked the advise I have for your "Friend" is to step into the batters box and be clear as possible by saying "is you is or Is you aint my baby" this way he can step off or step up.

Life is too short for uncertainties.Lead ,Follow or Get out of the way.

guys a lt of times are really slow about this and may never bring up this topic. if you are worried that he might go hook up with someone else and be able to act like its not a big deal because you never had "that talk" then you should probably bring it up. but it is important when you bring it up. timing is everything. for example, he'll probably take it better if you have been making out or you are naked haha. just a thought

Well if he may never bring it up then the best thing to do it just ask. Maybe hes to shy to ask her.

Do you see them when they are together? Why don't you ask him? Put him on the spot...

Say, 'So are you guys official now or what?'

And hope that he actually responds!

she should bring up the subject of her wanting to be serious with him and see what is his response his actions should have her conclude what he wants, but right there and then she should be able to see if he really wants to be with her or what.

of course! otherwise he'll just stay in the friends with benefits zone.