(Please don't say anything rude or "just move on"… because that isn't my question)

So basically, my ex an I broke up end of March 2013. We didn't speak from the break up until end of June.

From June-mid October, when we would text or hang out, it felt kind of weird. Like it felt forced.

But the past few weeks, it felt completely different.

He told me back in June that he doesn't want to get back together.

In September, I told him "I wouldn't want to get back together with you" (I didn't mean it)… And I didn't think he'd remember.

I saw him during the day yesterday (we ran errands) and he kept putting his arms around my shoulders and waist

But last night, him and I worked out together. We went to his house after, and I rested my back against his chest. He then put his arms around my waist, like he used to when we were together.

He then said "I know you miss this"… and I said "I do" (but since the break up, he's literally never talked about, or referred to our past relationship with stuff like this)

And then I asked him (stupidly): "would you really never want to get back together?" and he said "we'll see. I don't want to make promises, but we can talk about it later" and then he starts laughing and goes "hey! I thought you were the one who said you didn't want to get back together" and I said "you really thought I meant that?"

I asked him why he's different now with me than how he was over summer and he said "different time and mind set"… what the heck does that even mean??

WHY would he bring up us as a couple before? Completely threw me off-guard.

I'm thoroughly confused now lol