I have a fiancé but I'm crushing on someone else?
I've been with my fiancé for 4 years and we have a baby she's 1 but 2 months ago I caught him with my ex best friend in bed they didnt have sex but they did stuff but ever since our relationship has been really complicated we've been fighting often but I recently started working and there's this guy I work with he is soo cute and I'm just crushing on him and he knows it and today he talked to me and OMG I got butterflies and all that lol I'm feeling really guilty and confused I'm trying to work out my relationship with my bf but at the same time im liking someone else!
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Both you and your fiance' are idiots.
Neither of you are responsible enough to raise a child.
For your sake, and the child's, I suggest you give her up for adoption. But since neither of you seem to know the meaning of fidelity, but rather let your hormones lead you googly-eyed towards the latest candy.
Maybe, in about 10 years time, you'll be mature enough to have a REAL relationship. But for now, the future of the child is more important.
Call off the engagement, if thinks arent working out now there not just gonna magically get better. If your worried about your baby DONT, you can always share, from personal experience i have a stepdad and i don't feel the need to see my dad because i have everything i need here, also fighting is alot more scarring than breakups because alot of kids blame themselves and its hard to figure out life. Dont try to make it work, dump him. It's better for you, him and the baby