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There is nothing wrong with sharing abundance when the cosmos has blessed you. However, keep the lines clearly defined....make sure she knows that you care about her and want to gift her, but that you set the limit from the beginning. That way, she wont be so inclined to be envious of your new found lucre, and she will have to be responsible for her own choices about how she uses the funds that you give to her. It will be for you to decide how much you can or should share with her. And then, just as in any "healthy" relationship, stay true to your word. Whatever that amount is that you decide you can share....let that stand. The first time you fail to keep to your original agreement, you will have taught her that your word means nothing, and that she can work you to her own advantage.

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All you have to do is disagree with it.

Why should SHE have IT.

You earn it, you decide!

You don't have to spend it on her when you don't want to.

if she needs a ride, she have to earn it! get a job and get lost.

Sorry.

Anyway, if she starts to be violent or anything scary or abusive you should stay as far as possible from her and evryone knows that.

but if she keeps coming back, yous should conjure a plan.

plan ahead on what's coming next.

BTW, never let her get control of you. it's yourlife.

she should live on her own, make a living like you do.

you guys are not living in the same roof right?? that would be a big problem if comes a disagreement.

I just hope your siblings are the patient kind, unlike mine.

Good luck!

It's your money!

You tell your sister that, if she wants those things, she needs to earn her own money and buy it herself. When you were told to spend it wisely...it didn't mean to spend it on items for your sister that she really doesn't need.

Being an idiot is definately not easy is it? just say to your self several times ''i might grow out of being an idiot and become a moron''. Have you said that? how much better do you feel?

Say no ..and no means no! You work hard for that money why just give it away! If anything tell her to get a job! Give them A step and they take a mile!

Tell her that it's your hard earned cash and that if she wants all these things why doesn't she go out and get a job to pay for them. If she complains say that's not my problem and I want to provide for myself and it isn't down to me to pay for your luxuries.

Say no.

She'll have to make her own money.