When I met my boyfriend it was love at first sight for both of us. He told me him and his brother were buying a house together and he wanted me to move in with them. At the time we all got along and it seemed fun.
I noticed right away how controlling his brother was in the house. He would take pictures of my things if I left them out and send them too me. I used to take tests for ovulation because my boyfriend and I were trying for a baby, he would find them in the trash, take a video of him finding them and send them to me with him saying “I hope this isn’t a pregnant test”
He knew we were trying.
When I got pregnant he threw such a huge fit to his whole family I actually considered getting an abortion. I was so happy and he completely ruined it. He told me I had to choose my dog or the baby. And if I kept both he would make me cry for 9 months straight. Which he ended up doing because I kept my dog. He told me to go **** myself and didn’t talk to me my whole pregnany and up too my daughters 6 months of age. He would lock me out of the house. Tell everyone in his family my business. Never said congrats when I brought the baby home. He acted like we both didn’t exist.
My boyfriend would just try to keep the peace and say “just keep ignoring him” “it will be fine”
But my anxiety is always so high and I barely leave my room with my daughter. I can’t live like this anymore. I want to move back home with my mom but I love my boyfriend and don’t want to be away from him. Help
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It doesn't sound good for you at all. Your boyfriend doesn't care about this because the house belongs to he and his brother and you have less standing?
Well, it's doubtful your boyfriend's brother got any say in whether or not he was going to live with an infant. It's sure not everyone's cup of tea!
You aren't wed, it doesn't sound like the house relies on your financial contribution, and you're unhappy there. I think you and your boyfriend need to have a talk about the fact that you want to move back "home" again because this house isn't becoming a home for you. Might end up being a good choice.
Seriously, I would break up with your boyfriend for not defending you. ANY attempt to brush this off, means he’s complicit.
i would move out
You live in a very dysfuncional situation. You should leave immediately if you have the means. Do not tell anyone you're leaving. Just take your daughter and go. And DO NOT any of them where you are. Make your boyfriend file for visitation.
Hmm... I mean I get it. Not all women are into the tough guy thing, that’s fine. If you found yourself a nice man who treats you well, I’m not saying to not appreciate that. But Jesus Christ, at what point does someone grow some f*ckin balls? Your boyfriend should have dealt with this a long time ago. It’s not about keeping the god damn peace, you don’t seem to have any peace anyway. I think he’s just a pusssy, I’m sorry but it’s true. Seriously, if my brother told my woman to abort MY KID, he’d be picking his god damn teeth up on the floor.
WHY are you torturing yourself with staying there? You and your boyfriend need to move into your own place.
It's entirely in your hands to stop this abuse by not exposing yourself to it. Sit down with your boyfriend and decide where to move.