so it was pretty much just me and my mom. She on social security by the way. I work full time I basically Handel the bills at home because she can’t afford to live in the house on her own. Everything going fine but I had got into a relationship at the time. My GF moved in with us, whole time she lived with us my GF at the moment always felt second place because my mom treated us like we was married. She basically put it out that whatever I have is hers we save our money together while my GF lived with us. My mom use to make comments he’s not going no where me and him has X amount of money in our bank account we doing good excluding her. Me and my GF got into a fight she basically moved out but we was still together she got her own place .. I basically moved in kinda I was always there. But I didn’t pay for anything at her place . I was still paying the bills at my mom house . While I was living with my GF for basically free. My gf use to say just move all your stuff here I got us . But I didn’t feel right . Months past I finally decided I was going to finally move out fully . I didn’t have the heart to tell my mom I was moving out. When I finally did she was against it . She cried saying idk how I was gone make it. I promise I was going to still help her. My friend moved in with us they didn’t really get alone so thing was quickly feel apart.Running out of space but end of the story we broke up and I can tell my mom his happy I’m back home but I don’t wanna behere.idkwhattodo
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Do you REALLY want that house? I ask because, otherwise, investing your life in keep the house makes zero sense at all. This isn't about your GF... of course she moved out. Moving in in the first place was a crazy choice to make.
So your mom, if she gave birth to you at 40, is still only 67 If she's on Social Security. She either sells the house or SHE finds herself roommates that she can live with compatibly and rents out her rooms. Lots of senior women are choosing to life with other senior women. But unless your Mom is very old or very infirmed. it's way past time she ceased to continued to rely on YOU as her answer and salvation. Don't put up with it. You are a 27 year old man and don't have your OWN bank account? None of this is your gf's fault OR your Mother's fault. Not really
my parents divorced, TWICE, before i was even 13. so shut up.
Presumably you lived as if you were married.
Or was it all celibacy and separate beds?
Why did you not tell your Mom you were moving? Sounds cowardly to me