I told this guy I’m going out with that after my divorce (a year ago) my ex end up living in my house. It was so neither of us had to fill bankruptcy, we don’t have anything “cute” going on, but as responsible adults we did not wanted to screw up financially nor I wanted to lose my house. We r financially cut up & he is moving out next month. We have an 11YO daughter, but there is no love. As soon as I told him he took a protective attitude towards himself. I know he went out w/someone else after that, but at the same time he continues calling me. A week ago I storm out of his place, he was treating me so distance that I thought that was the last time I was to see him. I had told him a few days before about my living situation. He has been calling me & yesterday we went out antiquing. Later he invited me over to his place. I asked what he thought about my deal w/the ex & he said “that is not of my business” .We make out but didn’t have sex (we had slept together before).
Update:I was ready to leave but he asked me to stay over the night. No AM sex, he made coffee & we watch TV. He kissed me good bye. I don’t get this guy.
1- Does he likes me but is having a tough time w/my ex role in my life?
Or
2-does he only want company and the occasional lay?
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He's having a tough time with your living arrangement, which is something you should have been upfront about from the start. Doesn't matter if you are still married or divorced or what, a living arrangement such as yours is not condusive to encouraging a guy to enter into a relationship with you, especially since you withheld that info until after you were having a sexual relationship with this guy. I can't say I blame him for backing off. I think this is a wait-and-see situation where you are going to have to regain his trust and your ex is going to have to be out of your house.
I think he's trying to protect himself. I'd probably feel uncomfortable too with my girlfriend still living with their ex. You can't blame him for feeling awkward about the situation. See if things change once your ex moves out.
I'm not really sure what the problem is, I'll try reading that again, but no guarantees.