I told this guy I’m going out with that after my divorce (a year ago) my ex end up living in my house. It was so neither of us had to fill bankruptcy, we don’t have anything “cute” going on, but as responsible adults we did not wanted to screw up financially nor I wanted to lose my house. We r financially cut up & he is moving out next month. We have an 11YO daughter, but there is no love. As soon as I told him he took a protective attitude towards himself. I know he went out w/someone else after that, but at the same time he continues calling me. A week ago I storm out of his place, he was treating me so distance that I thought that was the last time I was to see him. I had told him a few days before about my living situation. He has been calling me & yesterday we went out antiquing. Later he invited me over to his place. I asked what he thought about my deal w/the ex & he said “that is not of my business” .We make out but didn’t have sex (we had slept together before).
Update:I was ready to leave but he asked me to stay over the night. No AM sex, he made coffee & we watch TV. He kissed me good bye. I don’t get this guy. Does he likes me but is having a tough time w/my ex role in my life? Or does he only want company and the occasional lay?
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If you really like this guy then tell him "yes, I feel like this is your business, I want to talk about this so you are totally comfortable with things and you and I can proceed".
It's only natural that he became guarded, anybody would. It is important though , if you really like him that you keep him fully informed. It will take some time and I'm sure he will start to feel better once the ex is out of the house. Good luck!
sounds like he is holding back. he is probably afraid of getting too emotionally involved because of your situation. have to say, i can't blame him.
he prolly just doesnt want to get hurt or too caught up into you