I was talking to a guy who claimed he loved me a few weeks ago and stopped; then started again this weekend. He told me today that he loves me still, and has not talked to/touched another girl since me. He said he wanted to see me tomorrow and would call me back; that was two hours ago.
I went on his FB and saw that this one trashy looking girl keeps posting 'hurry up and get here'
'hacked by your boo'
'having fun with 'then she tags him''
and tons of pictures.
Not only that, he likes it and has winky faces on his responses.
Somebody wrote that she needed to cut her nails because his back looks screwed up from HER. wtf.
I asked my cousin who is his BEST FRIEND, and I'm close to my cousin; he said that he's not talking to that girl, and that he wouldn't lie to me.
Am I getting played? And, can I just say... this girl is slutty/trashy and I have never slept with him and I'm very classy and I think I'm much prettier. She's jacked up, with bad teeth.
Be honest, I'd love any truthful advice. ♡
Update:Forgot to post this ♡ ♡ ♡
They BOTH have single on their FB's.
Answers & Comments
Ahh from everything you said, I can tell you he is cheating on you however depending on how long you guys been together
if you two have been together for a while (6 months or more seems fair to call it a while) then he is diffidently interested in you but since you two haven't slept together, he needs some sort of sex. Witch is why he is visiting that "slut" I can grantee you he doesn't give a **** about her!
I say this because i am a guy and i know how they think also from personal experiences.
He's not playing you, but he is playing her. The rest is up to you to decide what you do next
This guy is not your boyfriend. If he did love you, he wouldn't have stopped talking to you for weeks at a time. He's telling you he loves you because he thinks that's what you need to hear. He tells you because you fall for it.
But, in his defense, if he's not committed to a relationship with you, he can date and see whoever he likes. Even girls with bad teeth. For all you know, he's known her for years. Maybe what he's looking for fun-wise isn't so classy.
This guy's best friend will cover for him no matter what. It's guy code. Sorry.
You don't need to do anymore snooping. This guy is not evil, but he's not interested in being your boyfriend. He's having fun and from what you are describing, that's all you can really expect from him. Is he lying to you? Probably, but in fairness, you're expecting more from him than he can ever give you.
If you're smart, you won't see him again. He'll only disappoint you.
you're getting played. I've been in the exact same situation.