How would you deal with your significant other’s family being racist/prejudice towards you?

So despite dating my boyfriend for EIGHT years, his parents have now decided we must live apart if they are going to continue helping him pay for school. It is hard on me financially as we live and work in the Boston area, which is one of the most expensive, but ill manage. School is very expensive, so i dont want my bf to give up a debt free education for me. They are wealthy vice presidents for big pharma, and are from India so there are cultural differences. My boyfriend was in business school for 6 years because his parents only wanted him to go into a high paying industry, but finally recently allowed him to start music school as his true talents and passions are in art and music. But now they are blaming me for how my bf smokes weed and drinks (even though he did it before we met and is a hippy type naturally), and telling him they hate me and to break up with me while he is in this new program to focus. I am black not Indian and feel it is kinda racist for them to act like it was my fault he failed all his tests in school just because we both smoke weed and drink, as i easily completed my master’s degree by 23, since i had a real passion for business unlike my bf. Another red flag about racism i got was one of the last times i was hanging out with them, my boyfriend was telling me no one in his family is racist, and his mom interrupted and said there WERE racists in the family. She didnt say anything bad about them either, just said they were racist and nothing else.

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