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Here's an idea if you want to tell him now, I know I couldn't hold it in for very long, not even until my hubby got off of work. My husband and I were ttc, and I tested while he was at work. I sent my hubby an email that had a picture of us together from the previous weekend and basically did the whole master card thing.

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Knowing there's 3 people in this picture, priceless!!

My husband absolutely loved the way I did it, and will never forget that picture either.. Good luck & congrats!!

I dont think its right for you to wait until he gets back, esecially if you're telling other people. I sent my fiance a picture of the pregnancy test with my phone while he was at work, he loved it. As far as the wedding...don't let other people tell you what to do. If the two of you want to wait and have a big fancy wedding as planned do it, we're putting ours off and have gotten the same "ideas" from firends and family to get married at city hall and then have a big wedding next year. Do what makes you happy and screw everyone else! Congrats on the baby!

DO NOT WAIT! I'd be mad if my fiancé did not tell me soon. You're depriving him a few months of joy! You can still do something romantic.

Go back to your doctor with a video camera and have him say to your husband he's going to be a father and put it on youtube!

Or put a balloon on your belly over your shirt and take a picture and send it to him with a witty caption like "Do you still think I'm attractive?" and when he says "Uhhh. Yes?" all confused you can say "Good. We're having a baby and I'll be THIS big!"

Write him a poem! "Roses are red, violets are blue, I'm having a baby, thanks to you!"

Bake him a cake and write, "Congrats future dad!"

(assuming he doesn't know how to speak/read Chinese-Mandarin, Wu, Cantonese, etc) Find out how to say you're gonna be a daddy! Then make him figure it out.

Do something and do it soon ;) Congrats

Honestly I dont think it would be a great idea to wait and show him your bump when he gets home lol... I think that may shock and scare him just a little, I mean it would scare anyone especially if you talk to him frequently he will wonder why you didn't share the good news before! If the both of you have computers you should get a cheap web cam and get a cute little outfit that says " I love daddy" then you could show him and get to see his reaction. Good luck and congratulations!

I would not recommend waiting for him to come home to see you with a bump, i mean im not saying he wont be happy to be a dad but c'mon a bit thoughtless and he may be shocked you might not get the reaction you like.

I think you should contact him as soon as possible and tell him the exciting news, that way you can send him pics via email of your progress :)

Phone him - let him know as soon as possible. And don't wait to get married - have a ceremony as soon as possible. Time for the fancy wedding is gone, you have a child to be concerned about now and concentrate on that.

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im 37 weeks but i was only 1 month when i told my boyfriend who went to texas for 6 months now is in wyoming for two years and he dosnt no wen he can come back to see the baby be born.so i think that you should tell him and send him a whole bunch of altrasounds and pictures of your belly every month or get a web camera im gonna get one of those so my boyfriend can see the baby and with a web he could see your progress live.hopes this helps good luck.

first of all congratulations.if i were you i wouldn't wait until he came home i would tell him as soon as possible imagine his surprise when he came home and seen you in that condition he would probably wonder why you haven't told him and maybe question if he was the father if you left so long to tell him.besides if anything was to happen to the baby(hope not ) you really wouldn't want to go through it alone without him knowing

you should call him and say you have a happy surprise for him when he comes back. then when he asks about it-if he does-say you are pregnant in a riddle. sort of like-there is someone new i would like you to meet or something. he will probably figure out the riddle sooner or later so it won't be a shock for him when he comes back.