About two months ago , a 25 yr old girl asked me (I'm 20 btw) and now a 40 yr old woman. I really don't have any ideas why this happens to me. I'm not ready for any kind of relationships. its too soon for me. I know that there's nothing wrong with older people falling for younger ones. its totally okay. but I'm not ready for the whole thing.
And I don't show anything in my attitude.I mean , all I care about is my job (when I'm at work) .I have absolutely no idea what's wrong with me. I have enough stress at work .this has made me avoid people . I'm kinda tired of everything. I feel like I'm not myself anymore. sometimes I skip my meals just to avoid conversations with them. I feel uncomfortable talking to them if that makes sense. they are nice&mature ...etc...all the rest of it. but I dont think that I can handle what they're asking me for.
Thanks & sorry for the long question.
Update:Oh of course. like I said , there's nothing wrong with them. I just want to know how I can avoid romance in general . thanks anyway :)
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You need to be alone for a year or so. All I can tell you about the older woman liking the younger guy is maybe it makes them feel young again. I know that I am an older woman and I did like a younger guy but it wasnt because of his age or to make me feel young, but rather because I just loved his personality and the heart wants what the heart wants. Oh Well!