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I am in 8th grade, and there is this girl I rly like who lives in my neighborhood, but she is in 6th grade, I am 13 and she is 11, I know u don't want to deal with 8th and 6th grade drama but I really need help, should I ask her out?
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Jake,
Do you know if she likes you? It would be a good idea to quietly find out--the best way is the hardest: talk to her. You don't need to tell her you like her, or anything. Just talk about normal, everyday stuff. If she seems happy to talk to you or if she plays close attention to you, then she might like you.
If you think she likes you, it's probably ok to ask her out. But, remember that there are some challenges that come with your age difference. For example, her parents might not want her going out with an 8th grader, because they might worry that you'll try to get her to do things she's not ready to do yet. So, you need to be careful and respectful of her.
Also, 2 years is a big difference. In a year, you'll be in high school, and she'll still be in middle school. Just something to keep in mind.
Yes. What have you got to lose?
We know nothing about you or her.
You should make that choice.