Now by gentleman I mean allow me to dress in a nice suit and be into different types of orchestral music. Whenever I express these interests I get shot down. I want to find people and a place that share these interests and support them. I don’t expect anyone to understand my question, mostly because I’m still trying to find the best words to allow it to make sense but if someone could help that would be appreciated.

P.S now there is more to the def of what I’m trying to say, but I lack the words.