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He has to realize a fast food job probably isn't going to take care of both of you unless he is a manager or lead supervisor, or owns the place. Plus travelling that much is going to eat into the budget too.

You shouldn't get competitive when it comes to who has the better job, as long as you're earning some thing and helping with the finances that's what counts. If you want to be with him then let him know you want to earn you own money to help contribute more to the fiances and house hold things. If you're doing things around the house and working then he shouldn't be calling you lazy. I know it hurts to be called lazy, been there. My boy friend thinks I'm lazy because I don't work as much as him, but I make up for it by doing things around the house and doing most of the cooking. Finances and jobs are some of the most common causes of break ups. If you can't get past this then you may want to reconsider getting married to him.

I have learned one thing from experience. If you really love each other then realize it is not worth it. Don't fight with each other. If it tears you apart and you take a break and split up you will even start to miss those fights. None of it is worth it. Try to realize how lucky you are right now before everything gets taken away.

Chances are in two years you won't remember what he looked like so just lose him now and avoid the aggravation.