GIRLS HELP! Relationship issues…..?
Okay so My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months and in 2 months she'll be leaving for college. We're going to continue our relationship long distance. Basically, the issue is that lately she's been acting a little "distant." For example, she always replies in one word texts, she doesn't seem as interested in seeing me, and she isn't up for anything sexual hardly at all anymore.. I'm a little scared and I'm trying not to push her away but whenever I bring the situation up (lightly) She says that she has o idea what I'm talking about and that that's not the case at all. She even makes excuses for little things I point out instead of trying to resolve issues… Anyone wanna help? I'll help you. thanks
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You're trying... You are. It sounds like this relationship is headed south and she's quite aware of it.
She just doesn't want to be direct about it. Thus the excuses.
The first year of college is a little stressful at first and that could be why she's acting distant. Maybe it's not something she wants to think about just yet. Just continue to be there for her and support her as best as you can. Let her know that you're there and she can talk to you about anything if she needs to.
Long distance is hard but they do say distance makes the heart grow fonder, so hopefully things work out for you two. I wish you the best & I hope this helps! (:
I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 9 months now, and he's also doing the same thing that your girlfriend seems to be doing.
What I figured is it's just that maybe they aren't feeling good recently. It's clear she doesn't want to break up with you since she's not accepting the fact that she's being short with you, but I wouldn't stress about it. She might be trying to unattach since you two won't be seeing as much of each other.
I'm sorry to say that long distance relationships ONLY work if BOTH people are commited and are willing to have the emotional pain that you will be going through. But it seems like she isn't going to be too commited so your long distance sounds like its going to be more one-sided and it isn't going to last long and is going to end up very painful. You need to talk with her about hoe your feeling and don't go lightly about it show her that you are concerned and would rather not go through the relationship then to be lead on. Good luck kid(:
Evan, she might be a little upset about having to leave to college and starting a long distance relationship (which I'm sure she thinks doesn't have the best success) this might be causing her to act distant. just reassure her of your feelings for her and tell her distance won't change that.
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It sounds like she`s not interested in having a long-distance relationship. Stop asking her about the little things she does, and just sit down and talk to her about that. you may end up breaking up with her, but thats just how it goes. sorry.
im so sorry, long distace is super hard maybe shes stressed with college and stuff, just be sweet and make her feel on top of the world. (:
Well my advice to you is don't stress about it. You're overanalyzing everything. Go drink a creme soda and chill.
she might just be sad that she has to be far away from you and by distancing herself now it might make it less painful. reassure her about it.