I’ve been dating my girlfriend for 4 years. There has been a history of my girlfriend doing sneaky stuff behind my back. She’s gone to dinner with guys, told a guy she wished she was single, deleted Instagram DM conversations when she wanted to show me something on her phone..

In one of her classes at college she got a guys snapchat.. she’s told me how she doesn’t like him because he hit on her so she blocked him and unfriended him

I looked and saw she still follows him on instagram and Snapchat. I ended up snooping... I Looked at her messages to this kid.

She told him she couldn’t talk to him anymore “like this” because she has “kind of a friend with benefits” that she “really likes”.

She doesn’t have a friend with benefits. She’s my girlfriend so why was she referring to me as her fwb???