After i moved out of my parents I've lived on my own for years and never had a roommate and absolutely LOVE IT! I've dated my now fiancé for 4 yrs but he has his own place and even though we spent many nights at each others place it's always nice to come bk to your own home. Wedding is approaching meaning he's moving in with me soon. I love him and know we will get along great but theres one thing I'm worried about....I don't enjoy sharing my bed with him (or anyone in general). I need a lot of space, I sprawl out and love to toss and turn a lot. What makes me more nervous is that he snores and breathes very loudly and annoyingly when he sleeps to the point where I can't fall asleep even if I'm super tired. Sometimes I leave the room and sleep on the couch in order to get a goodnight rest. I don't want to live like this forever and I know I have to get used to it but wanna know if uve had similar problems and what did u do to make it easier to deal with?
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I would definitely start with a king bed. If he's overweight, he may have sleep apnea and a doctor can take care of that. I love space when I sleep too. He also gets up earlier than me on some days for work and makes so much noise when he's getting ready. I wish I had my own room most of the time. The snoring will never stop if a doctor and a sleep clinic does not step in. It only gets worse. Then when you have kids, it will annoy them too. lol Long time smokers start snoring sometimes because of the habit. If it turns out to be sleep apnea, the doc will put him on a breathing machine and the hum/white noise of the machine will help you sleep like a baby as well as the lack of snoring. Good Luck, keep us posted. :)
My husband was once the equal method. I might say wait till you're married and ideally were for a whilst simply considering that marriage does difference the whole thing. But simply understand that he'll be like that till you get pregnant then he'll be so excited. I am now five months and my hubby can not wait till our little package arrives! Good good fortune, be sufferer and you'll be able to do that.