He told me I don’t understand, that he has no money. He wanted to get married and take me to dinner no celebration or anything. I told him a simple dinner at a garden is fine. Just the family nothing big. He was going to spend more going to a restaurant. He started to get excited and started planning the wedding he got a photographer which I didn’t ask for cuz I know he doesn’t have much money. He got food catering, a garden a dj. Well  now he’s all upset at me and brought up the fact that his brothers wife only asked to have a dinner at the house. And that I like everything nice. That he’s a simple guy. I got so sad because he is comparing me over the girls choice. I don’t care what she chose I am me and it’s not like I’m asking him for a huge wedding party. No it’s only a dinner. He’s inviting 80 people. From those 80 I’m only taking my parents and brothers. We are 6 total. I told him I don’t like the fact that he’s comparing me with her. I’m sure  she talked to him so he can feel bad. She doesn’t like me from what I know. I’m really sad and upset at the same time. I never ask him for anything ever! In fact she asks his husband for good materialistic stuff. I’ve never been married and she went to live with her husband before getting married. Do you guys think this is ok for him to act this way just because of her decision?