My ex-boyfriend and I had been going out for three months. We broke up three days ago, he initiated. I sent him messages today saying that I do still love him and I admitted that I did not show my contributions enough because I was previously hurt.
He messaged me online saying following things, do you guys think he is still interested in me?
1. He: We have talked about it before, and I think we are very different people. I do not tend to change you, and I do not want to change myself either.(seems not interested in getting back with me)
2. He: Do you agree with what I said?(about our differences and me of not contributing enough)
I: it is not gonna make any changes whether I agree or not, right? So not important anymore.
(I think I make a big difference, some online advice say: if you want to get your ex back, at least agree with what he says about the break-up)
3. He： I hope we can still be friends in the future
I: that is impossible, you know that.
He: sorry that I am not good at doing this, wasn't trying to make you feel bad.(was he trying to stay in contact in case he wants to get back?)
4. He: Have fun in China( I am a foreign student will spend my winter break at home), and let me know if you need a ride to the airport.
I: my friend will take me there, thanks anyway.
Am I not reading messages from him that he is giving chances to get back together? Or he just wanted to be polite and not want an ugly ending? Please advice.
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It shows that he still cares for you
But you are not ready to be in a relationship maybe....first figure out what it is that you want
then maybe is he is still available give it another try....it's up to you....But it seems like he cares
and wants you to stay friends
Well i don't think it was because your ugly he did go out with you in the first place for 3months didn't he? I think he just wants to be friends or it can be because your going go china and i guess you two won't see each other.