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i think if a male doesnt want you to talk about it, its because theres someone he doesnt want to know because he likes them and that can wreck it for him, theres other reasons to, but there not really good either, males are proud usually unless you are saying negitive things about them, im a male and have a few friends and never known that unless they have a interest on another girl and dont want them to know, or are ashamed of being with you maybe coz his friends tease him, or he just hasnt grown up yet

My man never directly told me not to tell anyone our business, but it was something I knew not to do anyways. We were talking on the phone one day and I asked him what do guys talk about. One of the things he brought up was how they tell details about girls that they really don't care about. He said that if the girl was special to them, then they didn't talk about the private parts of their relationship (sex, what it was like, etc). He said that what goes on between a man and a woman should stay between a man and a woman.

I don't know if this meant most guys though....

Only if they have a small penis or are keeping you on the DL because of another girl.

Girls always discuss the size of their men, if they're not up to par, I could see the spreading of this being a problem.

I feel like kissing and telling is like setting men up for good reputations, or failure. If we were horrible in the sack, or didn't "measure up" you will tell all your girls and then they'll pass the word on to their future generations. If we were great, you'll tell your girls and we'd be seen as potential hook ups for future use. SoOo, you kinda have the power to make or break us.

Not like I have anything to hide but our business is our business. How can I trust to tell you anything if you gon run and tell yo girls after i made it clear not to tell nobody. Me telling her not to tell is like talking to wall. Women gossip a lot more than men do. If we going thru something the same principle applies depending on how private I want it to be kept.

I stay away from women who I feel talk too much plain and simple, if its between us it should stay thay way imo, me and a blabbermouth would not make a good couple

btw I agree with Wifey, what her bf told her was the truth from my experience

I'm only posting on this to notice something; what the hell is it today with everybody and their mother posting a link to their questions on your questions, GiG? This is getting ridiculous.

To answer you, it depends on if it's complimentary or not. I don't want my girl talking shìt behind my back, but if she's bragging about me, then I am all for it.

Yes, it can be an issue. The less said the better. You have to remember your not talking about your sex life, your talking about his. He may not want to talk about it with your girl friends.

yes yes and yes. Guys make you think differently and from my experience they basically trick you and make you think that you can trust them and i have lost many "friends" that way...make sure you know them and trust them enough before you tell to much

Only when it's about something bad.. or embarrassing!