I caught my fiancé cheating on me with other woman can I sue him for this. he has told me lies but I have picture proof he was with her and other people have told me they saw him with other woman... his own children was with them. he also put it on face book that he was in a new relationship but was still engaged to me ... he deleted me so I couldn't see that he was with her... she wasn't the first one I had to go to my dads to take care of him due to illness I wasn't out of town 8 hours and he was out with a woman... then I found out he was with his x girlfriend in our house ... which he and her have restraining order against each other set by the state were together while I was gone ... 2 days ago I found out he was with another woman... he lie said he wasn't able to go on vacation with me that work wont let him off ... right now he's with her on vacation with her...
Update:when he is making plans with you to get married in December.. your warring his engagement ring and has told everyone you are getting married... been together for almost 2 yrs. live together. bought things together... and you have taken care of him and watch his kids ... what would you call it when he tells you he slept with other woman... the mans taken 2 yrs. of my life and thrown it in my face ... and lied about where he was going ... he made promise and broke then ... being engaged is a commitment ... living together is a commitment we were to get married the 1 of December ... don't get me wrong there no way in hell will I married him now but he owes me ALOT OF MONEY FOR THINGS HE PROMIESED TO PAY FOR AND DIDNT NOW I AM STUCK WITH ALL THE BILLS...
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Unless he's promised to pay for things in writing you won't have much to go on. The best bet I think you might have is to stick him with the entire bill for anything non-refundable from the wedding costs, like a caterer deposit, hall deposit, dress, etc. But even that's not 100% guaranteed.
I know you're angry, that's normal, but you're anger over relationship issues, not legal issues, so don't give yourself a huge court bill for nothing. It won't help you feel better.
While you can't sue him for cheating you can sue him for 1/2 the wedding costs that have been paid. You may be able to recover some of your wedding costs but then you have to chase him to get what the court awards and never see it anyway! When you try to separate a relationship fights ensue rapidly over small things. I brought this rug, you can't have that couch, I paid for it. It is best to each have a support person who really has your back present while you move out. If it becomes necessary to call the police, you can both be thrown in jail and have to hire private police duty to supervise a move out. If it is your apartment you might even have to evict him if he chooses to be a jerk. If its his be the first one up and packing. Small special things that might "disappear" start taking them now! Put them at a friends house he doesn't know well enough to see. Good luck.
What are the specific financial damages his cheating cost you, personally?
You may be able to sue for breach of contract, but who called off the wedding, you of he?
If is was you then you may have a problem as HE did not violate your contract.
You were NOT married so fidelity is not an issue.
You cannot sue just because you chose poorly.
You have to have specific damages that he coast you. Those you can sue for.
BTW - he did not take two years out of your life. YOU did that by shacking up with him before marriage. YOU were the free sex and maid service by your choice. You cannot sue for those two years. Living together is NOT a commitment. That is why it is called "playing house."
He IS still responsible for the bills having to do with the wedding however. You may be able to sue him for that.
But remember, there was a reason he cheated on you. If you drag that part into court, he can testify on HIS reasons and that will not be pleasant. Stick to the actual damages incurred with your wedding plans. Leave the emotional stress out of it.
So, to answer your question. You can't sue him for leaving you in the dust....but if he truly owes you money and you can prove it with documentation then you can take him to civil court by all means!
But if you have no proof and just nothing but lies and forgotten promises...then sorry to say you may not get anything out of this break up except a hard lesson in life.
No, you can NOT sue a fiance(e) for cheating. If he is still willing to marry you but you broke the engagement, at best you might get reimbursed for only half of what you are out-you need to speak to legal counsel on this one...but you can not sue for broken PROMISES of any kind.
Any individual person that cheat r each NASTY!!! If u wish to exit of the connection climate u r married or not U should find a character that like 3 somes and even swinging.. This fashion u don't cheat the one factor is u would get an STD...
If you're still with him, no you can't sue him. If you have left him, you can file suit to try to recoup the money spent on the wedding, but it's more than likely that you'd never see the money. Simply learn from this, and move on with your life.
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You "can" sue anyone you wish, but you need to consider what you want to gain from it. It's going to cost you to sue him and unless you have money to burn, you're just out that money. I understand you're hurt but unless he owes you money and you have documentation of it, I'm afraid you'd be wasting your time.
There are some states that allow you to sue people for 'Alienation of Affection'. But I'm not sure if that would apply in your case. But dump his lying *** in the mean time, and move on with your life.