Boyfriend won’t answer me?
So my bf came over the other day and he told me he didn’t want to come for thanksgiving to see my family (he never sees them). Anyways, I get a lil upset and he leaves but it’s fine. Well, I text him about it saying how much it would mean to me if he could come, and he read it, and ignored me. It’s been two days and he just hasn’t responded. I’m so mad that he would leave me on read, as if I was the bad guy. I’m just really mad y’all because I see him watch my stories and I know he is ignoring me :( idk what to do at this point, I wasn’t rude to him and this does mean a lot so it hurts my feelings. I’m thinking about ignoring him right back if he does respond, because I’m so sick of him blocking me out whenever he’s upset or angry with me.
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It’s really immature to just block people out when he’s angry. Don’t chase him, but don’t play his game. Be the bigger person and tell him this relationship cannot work if he just ignores every problem. Also, may I suggest that in future, do not tell him how you’re feeling in a message. Call or talk in person
If he is blocking you out whenever he is upset or angry it is a very childish act .You deserve a more matured understanding type of a bf .Think about your feelings and take action.
Look.. if a guy likes you this is how it would have happened..
You: Hey babe, it would mean a lot to me if you could come to thanksgiving!
Him: I understand babe, but I have to work! I’ll make it up to you and come and meet your family another time. I promise ❤️
Or
Him: babe, I’m nervous about meeting your family and I just don’t know if I’m ready to just yet.. I know it means a lot to you but I’m just not ready. ;(
So with that being said.. this guy is not the guy for you. He’s not even willing to be real with you and tell you how he truly feels. You at least deserve to be acknowledged! You DESERVE someone that honors your feelings and emotions. Not someone who leaves you on READ and not someone who doesn’t text you back but watches your Snapchat stories.. you need to say “it’s okay, don’t come or text back, I’m moving forward with life without you.” ✌🏾
Get a real man girl,, get the man you deserve in life., this guy is a kid!
That is terrible, do you have a question?
What is your question? You have posted a rant.
If you're sick of him then dump him. That's how it is usually done.
DTMFA. If he's going to act like a child then dump him and find someone better.
stop being a child... do not do the "ignore back" game. accept that he doesn't want to come over and leave it at that. he obviously has his reasons.
and honestly i don't blame him. family gatherings give me bad anxiety because of SO's very touchy feely family. ask him about it.
i see you are not telling us the whole story... you bail out on his family gatherings also, no wonder he doesn't want to go to yours since you never go to his.
I lost track of what you are throwing a tantrum about. That he's not available on Thanksgiving.. or he didn't respond to your txt, isn't willing to be manipulated into it, or he left you on read or is ignoring you. So I think it's EVERYTHING! He doesn't want to have Thanksgiving with your family over all other choices he might have, he told you so and you wish to berate him until he caves but he's not giving you the chance? Yep.
I would just leave him to calm down and than have a serious discussion with him. Why doesn't he want to see my family? Is he too shy? Does he have anxiety and is terrified of meeting people? Does he hate your family because of something they did or said to him?
You didnt really give us the full story.