My boyfriend of 6 years and I just went grocery shopping. This time I paid for everything including some expensive cheeses and foods he wanted.
When we got home he tried some of the cheese and offered me some. I tried a piece but wasn't a big fan.
He then put together the cheese on a cracker with some fig spread and said "here, try this." I said no I'm fine, I'll just have the rest of my dinner. He then said "try this" probably over 10 more times putting it up to my lips and did not want to take no for an answer.
He then got very mad, shouting and accusing me of being xenophobic and that I need to be more open to trying different foods at my age. We literally ate Korean the other night but he said I didn't try everything so it's not good enough.
I'll admit I am picky but I literally tried his stupid cheese. As he is Asian, the cheese is closer to my culture anyway since I am European and the cheese was for him! I got upset and I said he should respect my decision and not try to keep shoving something in my face forcefully.
I am finding him increasingly overwhelming. Is this not controlling? He is seeing a counsellor tomorrow because he has been breaking under pressure at work but I don't know how to deal with him.
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I’d find someone else then get rid of the bf
Why stay with someone who is so controlling?
Time to move on
Yes, this is controlling behaviour from him. You'd be better off leaving him and finding someone more reasonable and respectful of you.
Tell him if he doesn't start respecting you, you are going to put your toes where his testicles used to be.
That is a bit weird....my boyfriend knows I'm picky and leaves me alone. And same here if he doesn't want to try something I respect it. We are all different. Your boyfriend has issues.