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lol!

believe me when I tell you, you're too fine to be worrying about that BS....

Well I don't think it's always self hate. I hate to name clothing brands as "white" brands because to me it's a personal style. And just because he's around white girls doesn't mean he is attracted to ONLY white women. I'm black and white and I have a good blend of black and white friends but mostly white friends. And I don't like to hear the term white-washed because to me, not all black people have to act the same and maybe he grew up in a mostly white neighborhood. And as far as self-hater, I don't know this guy so I don't think it's my place to judge him.

Like me personally, I grew up around black people my entire life (until I hit high school) and I was raised by the black side of my family. But I like to listen to rock and pop music more than I like hip-hop and R&B (still good music though), I prefer Old Navy over Baby Phat, and I am normally attracted to white men more than I'm attracted to black men (but my current boyfriend is black) Overall I'm still proud to be black.

Also I'm all for interracial dating. If it wasn't for people blending it up, I wouldn't be here.

Wow you are attractive but your personality seems ugly. Get over it girl. There's more than that one man. And try not to limit yourself to only black men. That's where your going wrong. See if there's other guys out there.

PS. Not all white girls wear heavy makeup. I know plenty of white girls that wear a minimum to no makeup. And I personally believe ANY woman of any race can be attractive. And maybe some black men find white women attractive like some find black women attractive. I don't see the big deal.

I see no point in wondering over this. She should just never speak to the guy again. He could have just said "I'm not interested". And the majority of black men do marry black women.

And I'm with you, they can have the thugs and deadbeats. But leave the good, educated ones alone. So unless the guy is married, he is fair game still. LOL!

I'm white and prefer black men...so what? There are many black men who don't date anything other black women. You act like you're out of options or something. I could stoop to your level and lash out at all the comments you made about whites but I'm above that. I think the problem is men of any color don't want to date close minded haters like you and your friend...point blank. Quit being so self centered and jealous of other women...period. You're obviously ignorant and decent men don't find that an attractive quality in a woman.

Because he can't be hisself around people like u......u judged him as gay and a self hater because he wears ambercrombie & fitch. White people don't mke that judgement based on clothing. It's very shallow to do that.

you cant judge an entire group because of one man's actions. if it makes you so sick and disturbed, maybe try asking that guy why he acts the way he does. it could be a result of personal preference.

this has a foul stench of racism.

i think your inflated ego has been hurt because you assume that with your supposedly awesome looks and your friends that all black guys would be all over you.

and why do you stereotype black guys and homosexuals? why do you assume that just because a black guy wears "white brands" and hangs out with white girls that he is self-hater? that is just retarted.

You're an idiot.

Love doesn't come in colors.

I like Italian men, and I'm white. That's just because I find Italian men attractive. I can't help it.

He obviously finds white women attractive. Just because he's black, doesn't mean he has to like black women.

Get over yourself.

i don't think most bm who date ww prefer them. my black ex left me for a black girl.

Yesterday you were talking about white girls wearing too much makeup.

Today is this story.

What's your problem? Why are you so obsessed with white girls problem?

Very ignorant & silly to connect dating preferences to being "white-washed" or a self-hater. And wtf are "white brands"?

(To add: Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. People of ALL groups judge. And acknowledging this isn't politically correct.)