So, I think I might be pregnant, we're not trying, and the last time we had a scare he freaked out! Like he won't eat, he can't sleep and he stresses out. I've been having some symptoms and when I mentioned my heart burn to him he asked if I thought I might be pregnant and I said no because I didn't want him to freak out again. He lives a few hours away right now and I only see him on the weekends. He's coming tonight, and I think I should tell him but if it's nothing I don't want to freak him out. But if I take a test I want him to be there for me. I just really don't know what to do. Guys, would you want to know now? Should I wait another week? I already missed my period last week, but this had happened before and I wasn't pregnant. Any advice?
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If he reacted that way, don't tell him yet. You don't sound very certain yourself. So, take a pregnancy test or two. However, if multiple tests tell you that you are pregnant, then make an appointment with your doctor. (If you're not pregnant and you're having these symptoms it could mean something else is wrong with you). Then, tell him you are going to see the doctor to make sure that you are or why you are having the symptoms. But, be gentle with him. Get him to sit down before you tell him. Tell him not to worry and that every thing will work out even if you are pregnant. So, overall be certain first, but let him know what is going on before you see the doctor because he may want to know about the appointment just in case it is something else. If you don't tell him before you go to the doctor's he might get angry at you for hiding it from him.
If it were me I would wait until i took the test and knew 100% that i was. Because if your not then it would cause unnecessary stress. Im not sure how serious you and your boyfriend are but if he loves and respects you then he should be there for you no matter what.. If you would want to carry on with the pregnancy then he should be there for you and stop acting selfish. So if he does freak out tell him this, if he acts like a dick them tell him to get lost
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take a pregnancy test. You don't want to be like to boy who cried wolf. If you are, just make a nice dinner, let him know you guys need to seriously talk and you are open to hear his opinion even though it might be a bit hurtful. Don't stress him, stay calm and hopefully that will help him stay cool as well. I hope everything goes ok!