We used to talk a lot, but for the past week, he just keeps saying he’s too down and upset to talk, but will read my Facebook messages and and only reply the excuse or not at all and sometimes he’ll stay on Facebook but not talk. Is he really feeling like this or just making excuses not to talk to me? I find it rude as f*ck. I have manic depression, bipolar disorder and Russell Silver Syndrome But I still talk and rarely say I don’t feel,like it. I want to get to the bottom of this, because I really care about him and like him. What is or could be be going on?
Update:He’s sometimes rude about it too. Very straightforward. If I say anything to try and make him feel better, he doesn’t reply anymore with a thank you, that’s sweet or anything, just no reply. He used to get excited about hanging out but now he just says okay and the last we hung out, he didn’t talk much.
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Forget about him. You don't need people like that
Just move away from him. He won't do you any good.
He has no idea what to say, but he like to keep connected.
He may just be battling depression of some sort, there really isn't much that you can do other than give him space and offer to talk to him if he may need some sort of help. It's good to be there for your friends
isnt it time to cut the guy loose and stop waisting your time on him.. its quite obvious that people make excuses there is another agenda going on with them.. So best thing to do is to ignore him.