A friend of mine was “flattered” to get passed a note from a stranger on the metro the other day that said, in essence, that she was lovely and that he would like to get to know her better, but he was too shy to simply say so to her face.
She posted the note and the story on her Facebook page to get opinions. The guys (like me) just assumed that this was an immature, but probably sincere, approach from a socially awkward guy who doesn’t get out much, and that it probably wouldn’t hurt for her to actually meet him (in a public place, of course).
At least one of her female friends thought that passing notes was “creepy” (her words) and that he probably tried this “line” on every attractive female that he saw.
I thought that her friend was just paranoid, since an experienced “playa” probably would not resort to something as middle-schoolish as passing notes on the bus (or metro) to cute girls.
What would you do? Call him? Or run away screaming “creepy stalker”?
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None. I would wait for him to search me. I don't find it creepy, it's cute in an awkward way.
Sorry but that has 'creepy stalker' written all over it. I live in NY so that would not go over well with me, esp since most of the young guys who approach girls on the subway are just playing around trying to impress their friends. I wouldn't be able to trust that the guy was honest or whatever. IMO, its better if he found a way to talk directly to her when they weren't on the train...that's much less creepy. Even if the guy is socially awkward, taking another approach might make a difference in whether she dates him or not.