My ex girlfriend is 21 I’m 24 she broke up with me after two years. We were extremely serious she even has a tattoo of the date we started dating on her shoulder. She lived with me for over a year. She became part of my family. I loved this girl deeply. We did stuff together every single day. She was all about me. One day before we moved into a apartment she ghosted me moved her stuff out my house and blocked me on everything. One month later she came back saying she wanted me back the problem is she changed into this girl who made 19 year old friends who party smoke weed and do drugs and sleep with all kinds of guys. She canceled our plans three or 4 times for these friends without even acting sorry about it she had changed so much she was treating me like a option like I don’t matter. I told her how I felt how she was better then her friends needed new friends and needed to treat me better l. She got mad quit talking to me it’s been 3 weeks now. I reach out to her and she doesn’t respond. I don’t get what happened at all but I love her I’m hoping this phase goes away soon. If I back off let her hit rock bottom with this party life is there a chance she will truly regret doing me the way she did and come back?
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No. As to the idea of you being a hero, to her you're an emotional support system that will probably help her out because you care. So add ATM to emotional support system. End it. First girlfriend relationships hurt when they end, but cut your losses and learn from what happened.
Infatuation can last as long as 1 week, OR up to 3 years.
When it dies out, most of the time there is nothing to build an actual, lasting relationship on.
Let go and move on.
Will she ever regret? No. Get over it.
And understand that love is NOT attachment. It is NOT an emotion. Love is unselfishness in action.r
Let go and move on.
If you are not TOTALLY over her within a year, talk to a therapist, because that would mean you will not get over her without advice.
If you have skills at working with your own emotions, you might be over her in as little as 3-4 months.
But NOT if you keep on dwelling on thinking about her.
Thinking about her does as little good at getting over your "addiction" for her, as lighting up another cigarette helps a smoker get over their addiction.
Our mind goes where we steer it. You have a habit of thinking about her. You won't get over her if you keep on going down that pathway in your head over and over.
Shut the **** up!!! You ask this question multiple times a day
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