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It seems to me that your father lacks an appreciation for your hard work. There are many possible explanations for this, but in most instances, this sort of issue is caused from communication problems and understanding each person's value system.

While talking to your father about this issue will undoubtedly be difficult to do, it will also be the best thing to do.

Keep in mind that some people just lack a fundamental capacity to communicate because they prefer not to. If you come to this sort of realization, always remember that it's not your fault. Try your very best to express your feelings to your father and if nothing comes from it, then move on and adjust your expectations of your father by remembering that this issue occurred and may never change. When you adjust your expectations of someone, you begin to realize that their input and respect is something you can do without.

sometimes men in general have trouble in this department (expressing feelings).....thats not an excuse but its just fact sometimes....