Look for the other shy person in the room, you're probably not alone! That person will really appreciate the fact that you've approached them, like you would if someone else did, and you probably won't be rejected.
Get involved in things you're interested in, clubs, sports, etc. A lot of people easily make friends in those types of situations, even if they're not really outgoing.
Just take baby steps. Determine to talk to one person you don't know at a party or something like that. You don't have to immediately become the center of attention to make friends.
Think of it this way: Being shy is a major waste of effort. It's your life - you just have to go for it and grab all the gusto you can. And you will find that people are attracted to confident people. (not arrogant, confident). And a good sense of humor goes a long way to help making friends.
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Look for the other shy person in the room, you're probably not alone! That person will really appreciate the fact that you've approached them, like you would if someone else did, and you probably won't be rejected.
Get involved in things you're interested in, clubs, sports, etc. A lot of people easily make friends in those types of situations, even if they're not really outgoing.
Just take baby steps. Determine to talk to one person you don't know at a party or something like that. You don't have to immediately become the center of attention to make friends.
Think of it this way: Being shy is a major waste of effort. It's your life - you just have to go for it and grab all the gusto you can. And you will find that people are attracted to confident people. (not arrogant, confident). And a good sense of humor goes a long way to help making friends.