For the past three years, I have been seeing a man who is nine years older than me. He currently lives in London, but plans to move to the states in Feb. He has had three past relationships and this is my first real relationship. He is a very kind loving man who I enjoy spending time with and would like to build a life with. However, there’s one problem. His age, past relationships, and good financial status has allowed him to experience far more than I ever have. One of my dreams has always been to visit Italy. Well, now It’s a little out of the question because his ex lived there and he’s not interested in ever going back. He’s also been to other places in Europe so he has a casual “been there, done that” attitude about it. There’s also several things he’s done in his past relationships that I would have liked to experience with him first. I think it’s important to experience new things together in a relationship, but I feel there’s just not a whole lot left. I can beg him to go to Europe with me one day, but I really don’t think it will be the same. I want to build a life with him, but I guess I need some advice on how I can get past this? One of my biggest fears that I’m always going to resent him for this.
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Don't resent him for what he cannot change. Accept it and move on. Find a new place that either one of you has been and make plans to go. As for Italy, plan a trip with a girlfriend. Great relationships have time together and apart.
If he sincerely loves you, he will want to make you happy. A travel experience with two different people will be two different experiences. Before you go too far with this, be sure he will treat you like an adult and equal partner in the relationship and not as parent and child.
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