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What matters most is how you feel about it. Not how strangers feel.

I love to watch porn with my boy/girl friends. But that's just me.

Do you enjoy it? If so ask him to watch with you.

If not, speak to him about why you're feeling insecure/hurt.

Remember he loves you. He married you. Even if he did like the look of someone else, he loves you and likes you more. You'll win that competition every single time.

I say enjoy it with him.

I'm female and personally I don't see anything wrong with it. I know some people get super angry about it and call it cheating, but in my opinion its a darn movie. Who cares.

Oh good focking grief. It's ridiculous to ask whether you should be mad or not. It's not us to us to tell you how you "should" feel about something. YOU FEEL WHAT YOU FEEL.

Mature adults know that masturbation is natural, normal and healthy for both men AND women. Mature adults know that porn is just pictures and videos of the act of sex, and that they are viewed for general sexual stimulation, to heighten arousal and achieve orgasm faster. Self-love is NEVER wrong. Viewing porn is not an issue unless it's replacing a happy, healthy sex life with your partner.

i thought you were going to say he was having sex

I can't tell you what's okay in your marriage. You and your husband need to figure that out, which means you need to talk about it. I wouldn't have a problem with it, but I'm not you and my husband isn't your husband.

Just let it go. He did not mean to have you see it.

Guys check out porn like we check out cars.

We will admire the looks of others but nothing beats what we actually have.

The question might be are you both intimate enough? My ex husband used to watch porn ALL THE TIME but that's because I willingly refused to have sex with him. Could be a number of things, but, communication is always key. I would ask him.

97% of guys and 81% of women watch porn.

Let it go