Was I wrong & stupid to propose my collegue via faceböok?
I sent her mssg 3 days ago telling her that I realy like her & she hasn't replied, unsually so. We usually chat on Fb abt general staff. I have hinted that I like her while we are at work but I didn't want to tell her fully at work. We have been talking abt going out since jaunary but it has not happen due to traveling & clashing schedule. So I finaly lost my patience & sent a mssg. I have not seen her since then coz I am on leave until next monday. What do I say when I see her? Shld I call and ask why she has not replied to my mssg?. Will I seen pushy?. Thanks
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I'm 60. The social world is changing. I'm a mastodon (not quite a dinosaur, still extinct, but there's still hope of finding some frozen DNA and resurrecting me) when it comes to social media and the changing social mores.
HOWEVER...proposing by Facebook? Seriously?
Has the world changed that much? Good Lord and Butter I hope not.
It sounds like you need a face to face apology and open hearted laying your cards on the table.
Dr. D
You told her you like her. That isn't a proposal. Maybe she thinks you are an idiot.