They’ve all got boyfriends?
I am 14 and have never had a boyfriend. I feel as if everyone is getting together apart from me.
I am friends with mostly girls and not many boys cos i go to a stupid girls school! but all my friends seem to have got a boyfriend or be loved up!!
Everyone likes me as a friend, in fact I am quite popular, but now I feel really lonely. What is wrong with me? I feel so useless and ugly. Please help
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You're popular, and maybe there's no one good enough for YOU yet.
Plus to be honest, I think 14 is too young to have a boyfriend. There is nothing wrong with you. It's just not your time. The thing is, you can't 'look' for a boyfriend. If you look for a relationship because all your friends are in one, then you're only in it because of what the guy can offer. Not for who he is, or how he's different from the rest of the guys.
You gotta let the right guy look at you and take the courage to get to know you and adore you before taking it a step higher. Sometimes the guys that take the courage may end up being the wrong one, and one time will he turn out to be the right one.
It's hard, and I'm sorry you feel this way. My closest friends turn out to be in relationships too, and sometimes I wish they didn't want to confide to me about their happiness while the guy I've invested time into may be too busy for me.
Cheer up and try to enjoy the holiday. Get into the Christmas kindness. I did that the other day, and it's given me something else to think about beyond being single and all that. I hope it does the same effect to you if you try it out yourself.
And know this... You're not useless or ugly. You're a teenager who's inevitably going to feel anything BUT those two u's one day. Only if you believe you will and focus on the present. What you do have, and what you can improvise on. good luck.
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